wheN do i get to RomancE

I believe its almost everybody's wish to get a romantic partner for life.Its quite intriguing aspect of every single soul in the planet.Ask anyone in the world what u want in...ur would be....The answers will range from being beautiful/handsome, wise , submissive,well educated/earning or both,charming,mayb rich ,unassuming,glamorous,compassionate,muscular,adventurous , friendly...I'm pretty sure 99% dream of a caring better half !!
So i was wondering if thats what everybody needs,then everyone would finally end up with one !! Well, One day i was having dinner with my friend.Thats when a couple come n occupy the table right in front of me.Both of them were good looking...Young..no children to disturb(i say so cos i'v heard my cousin sayin so,who used to be so fond of kids)....Its rather a fact that most of the people are so interested to watch couples...I don know why they'd just give them some damn privacy..So i just dint mind them at al,thou my friend had his one whole eye just for them...
By that time the wheat paratha,which happened to be the 'in thing' appeared.As we were having our new dish with chicken pepper(which was so peppery that it burned by whole gastro system)...Amongst all this mayhem i could hear an irritating chomp chomp coming out of nowhere..I thought it'd be my dear friend n as i looked up,i was rather mystified to see the young guy eating lik a five yr old !! It made me laugh for a sec but my irritation seemed to overcome my humorsense...One minute into it,i noticed somethin different..His wife(otherwise he wont b lik this insensitive) was having a blushing smile watchin him eat n to my surprise this guy was so busy with eating,he failed to notice that and continued his munching !! Thats when i became the typical indian and started observing them !! For the next half an hour i was more interested in the couple than the wheat paratha and the pepper chicken...I was so disappointed with him and so sorry for the beautiful woman at the end of half an hour.In these few minutes he dint even look at her and was either munching his piece of leg or on the phone or even watching other couples(the typical character got thru evolution i guess)but not his wife !!
After a bit thought,i reasoned that he cant be blamed cos he might'v just got married and worrying over making that extra money or making himself secure or tired after a days work.There'd be so many thoughts running in his mind that he found it soothening to enjoy his piece of chicken ! Mayb !! Well thats when it struck my mind,when do i get a chance to romance !! I don know if the situation is same with other professions too,but then being a medical student,it takes u to 30 to be stable atleast.And by then you'd be probably having a kid or two and wont get to romance !! So when is it that i get to experience the beautiful feeling called romancing love ! Yes ofcourse its during the study life.The college life...Now here again another problem arises...Girls usually need to be married atleast by 24 but for medical guys lik us,24 is the age when we'd be still studying n wont be earning enough to stand by ourselves !! Thats the only time i feel jealous of girls...Their hormones get satisfied as they reach their peak...Isn't it not ?? I'd be happy to hear its not k :-) anyways guys lik us will get married at around 26-28 and only if we are lucky enough to find a girl 4yrs younger than us,we could do enjoy the moment.....
I mean just imagine that you are lying on a bed close to the large window in your house and your wife comes and sits next to you and gives you a cup of tea to drink and strokes ur hair..Wont you feel elated ?!? (don tell me you need a jug of beer instead !! )
So that small incident has made me think little ahead into the future.I consider myself lucky now to have observed them...Now i know i should be planning out a wonderful honeymoon again plus a holiday once in a while....Just to be in the amazing world of romance...To feel and let feel whats called love..........And the extraordinary thing in the story is that...As i finished with my thoughts on the couple and as i was about to wash after the eventful dinner,i got my mob beeping...Twas a sensational text from my princess..It read "missing u here baby"...Needless to say,we'd the best night together.........


This article is dedicated to my princess :-)

What if this happens to you.....

Imagine if this happens to you..........You and your female colleague r going in an auto...Both of u travel together home,by the volvo bus,thou usually by train...well As your auto slowly enters an illlit jailroad,a narrow but long dark road with huge walls on both sides,your colleague grabs your face in a lightening speed and locks her lips with yours !! If you haven't been kissed before,you'd know then whats it lik to be in that spot,where there are a million questions around u and at the same time you are in a bliss....Its a fight b/w your ideals n your hormones.... t What if your adventure never ends there.....You get into the big volvo A/C bus and you'v one whole night to travel after this delightful kiss with ur colleague.... As u recline n enjoy the movie being played you hear a whisper in your ears...."give me a love bite"....And when you turn to her side to ask her what she said,all you can see is a shiny fair shoulder stripped of the salwar....!!! But wait a second...What if u dint know what exactly she asked.....You ask her pardon n still you'v no clue on what she asked....What if she has to explain that a lovebite is an expression of passion..its just biting as hard as you can n leaving the bitemark.N more stronger the passion is,the more longer the mark will stay. Again you are fighting with your consciousness and your inner wish to feel a girl..... What if she asks you to give her more kisses....What if she takes your hand to her bosom and ask you to feel them.....thats when the real adrenaline rush comes and you sweat lik anything....You are equally excited and confused over what just happened.. This was the moment which turned the friendship into a physical relationship.. You are doing what you always wanted to do as a male..Feel a girl...... Now if you hear this you'd be out of your fucking mind "you can learn the anatomy now" and takes you to her private world... Your enthusiasm hits the pole and you are so eager for the explore......Taking care of satisfying your wishes and at the same time not disturbing the fellow passengers.... What if she was so happy with you that she invites you home when her working parents are away...You got to stay with her from morning 10 to evening 4,after this adventurous day..... You'd be one confident man na...Or will you repent what u just experienced...Could you'v stopped that ! Was it under your control or hers ! You decide not to dissect the incident and just pass on....What if this happens over and over....Will you get addicted ? Hopelessly addicted days pass....Months pass....One day some friend of yours describe the same incident to you...And to your shock.......The girl is the same !!

KILL THE BLOODY LONELINESS

People feel lonely for a number of reasons, such as not having enough friends, not knowing how to be close to the people you know, or simply because being lonely is part of the human condition. Here's how to cope with loneliness when it comes your way.

1. Realize that we all get lonely. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or that you have to stay lonely. We're particularly prone to loneliness when we're making transitions, especially for the better. If you're changing, such as exploring new alternatives and paths for yourself, you're bound to get a little lonely as you look for people who share your new interests and thoughts.
2. Call or get together with the people you know, even if they aren't who you want to be with right now. Human contact makes more contact easier. Talk until the feeling eases.
   
3. Get involved in anything where you will meet people. If you are very shy, find a group for social anxiety, even if it has to be online (obviously it's better if it's not). Volunteering can help.
4. Challenge yourself to take the initiative in social relationships whenever you can. YOU ask the person if they want to chat, get a coffee, whatever. Remember how much you like it when people are attracted to you.
5. Take risks about revealing yourself. Say what's on your mind, if it seems at all likely the other person will be receptive. It can hurt when it backfires, but it's worth it a million times over when it works out.
6. Remember that we are all alone inside our heads; we are born and die alone; it's nothing special. Every person who has ever lived has been lonely. Love wouldn't exist without loneliness to inspire it. Look at your loneliness with detachment.
7. Notice the difference between loneliness and solitude. Imagine this is the last day you will ever be alone. What would you do?
8. Join an online community, sometimes, it can help.
9. When feeling lonely, don't allow yourself to bask in your loneliness. Do something, anything! Take a walk, ride your bike.
10. Be happy. Live a life of optimism. Happiness comes from within regardless of your situation, so don’t use any excuses, such as being alone.
11. Do everything you would normally do with a partner or friend. Many times it isn't the partner or friend you are missing, but the activities and hobbies you shared. Take yourself out for a date. For example, if you would have gone out to dinner or to a movie on a date, then take yourself out to a movie or to a nice restaurant. Don't hold yourself back.

• Forget about the 'perfect' friend or lover. Connect with anyone who you assess to be genuine, and who is around you. Following your instincts about people can be important here. Just because someone is around/near you, doesn't mean they are good (vs. bad)company. According to me, being alone is better than being in bad company.
• Set up social activities when you're not feeling lonely. Anticipate.
• Read literature and go to museums/theater/dance. Art reaches inside.
• For those with religious beliefs, consider fellowship with those of your faith. Most churches should have some sort of regular fellowship, if your church doesn’t then consider starting one.
• Remember. Reaching out to someone else lonelier than you could give you so much more happiness than you could imagine.
• Learn to meditate so that you have the experience of being loved and nurtured emotionally by other sources than human beings.
• Consider getting a pet! Animals can make marvelous companions; they give unconditional love, and can offer you loyal company. Walking a dog can also be a great way of meeting other people!

but remember

• Loneliness is a state where cults will find you most vulnerable. Be careful and listen to what others have to say about any group you are thinking of joining.
• If you have a persistent feeling of loneliness, please seek medical help. It might be a sign of depression.
• Watch out! Becoming overly dependent on online communities as a social outlet may lead to addiction and more complications.

DiversiTy oF KissEs

Kissing is an expression of emotions whether that be friendship, love, or passion. There are so many different types of kisses to express these different emotinos and so many more different types of kisses that are just for pure fun and enjoyment.Here i am introducing you a few varities of kisses...most of them experienced n thoroughly enjoyed ones..have some knowledge and experiment it with ur sweetheart....so here we go..

My first kiss being the simple

FOREHEAD KISS : The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.

CHEEK KISS : A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

CUTE KISS : For some fun, gently and quickly kiss all over their face and neck, while at the same time holding each other like you havent seen them for years. This is a way to start something fun!

EARLOBE KISS : Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

ESKIMO KISS : With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

EYELID KISS : Softly kiss your partners eyelids one at a time. This is a very erotic and arousing kiss.
FINGER KISS : While kissing, as he raises his hands to your face, take them, hold them, and slowly ease away from his mouth. Gently kiss and or suck each finger. This feels great and it is very fun to watch

FIRST KISS : A first kiss is like a wish. You move closer and closer to each other, hoping for the kiss. You're lips gently touch and you feel the rush.

FOOT KISS ; An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
ANGEL KISS : This is a sweet, comforting kiss. Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.


BUTTERFLY KISS : With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

BELLY BUTTON LICK : Get a yummy cream or drink (whipped cream, etc) and fill your girlfriend/boyfriends belly button with it and lick it out.(dairy milk is on good option)

BAMBI KISS : A light lick on the side of the face.

ALL OVER KISS : Grab your partner gently, then begin kissing the forehead, moving down to the nose. Tenderly, with an aggressive feeling, give your partner your best kiss right on the lips. Next, move your way down and continue with your own imagination.

COLLARBONE KISS : Begin kissing your partner's neck, all the way up by the ear, then slowly work your way down their neck to their collarbone. This is very sensual and arousing.

THE ULTIMATE FRENCH KISS : : The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues

ICE CUBE KISS : Place an ice cube in your partners belly button, telling them that if they move and it falls out, you will stop kissing them. When the ice cube melts, you can use the cold water all over to make for an awesome sensation.

LOUBIE SMOOCH : Roll your partner over and kiss one of their bum cheeks then give it a little playful bite. Guaranteed to surprise your partner!


NECK KISS : Come up behind the person you want to kiss. Lightly lick the back of their neck, then kiss the back of their neck a few times.

NOSE KISS : Lean forward slowly to their face and softly kiss your partner's nose. This is a good way to get your partner's attention and it always makes them smile!



SLOW KISSING : French kiss your partner 10x slower than you normally would. For instance, kiss for 30 minutes or so. Try this with any kiss listed here, just take it very s-l-o-w-l-y.
STOMACH KISS : Gently kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, and sometimes it leads to other things.

SWEET KISS : Take piece of your favorite candy, put it in your mouth and kiss your partner. Exchange the candy from mouth to mouth, until the candy melts. Feel free to keep on kissing after the candy is long gone![again dairy milk ]

TONGUE TEASE : While french kissing, try moving your tongue on his teeth, then stick it in and out of his mouth. Be sure to move slowly as it will really excite him.

UPSIDE DOWN KISS : You stand behind your partner (who is seated or laying down) and have them tilt their head back. Then kiss them so that you nibble their lower lip and they nibble yours. This is fun and feels good because you can feel them breathing on your neck as you kiss.[this is really erotic ]

VIRTUAL KISS : For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-* .for mobile users too

WAISTLINE KISS : Kiss your partner softly, just slightly below and adjacent to the belly button. This will drive pretty much any woman wild.

now these are some of the diverse kisses i know...if u have any pls do suggest,i'll add them...have knowledge and be better in expressing ur love ...all the best

Let's Begin With The Simple Smile

How can you smile when you feel like you can’t smile? Whether you are feeling too blue to look happy, or truly cannot smile due to a physical problem, you can still show others your glowing personality. Communicate your smile a different way so that no matter who you are interacting with they know how happy you feel.

Force that smile on your face, no matter how negative a mood you are in. Even if you hate the guts of the person you are looking at, try to look pleasant. You don’t have to show teeth in a Cheshire cat grin. A simple smile will do.

Even if you physically cannot smile due to an injury, birth defect, or mouth guard, you can still project a smile through body language - stand up straight, hold your head up, don't frown, and smile with your eyes.

Wear clothes that smile. Add to your positive body language the color of happiness. Yellow is the color for dependability. A soft yellow is non-threatening and friendly. Warm colors are welcoming if from the yellow family. Golds, browns, golden-oranges, are all dependable colors of friendship. Blues are passive and calm colors. In the visual language, soft blues project a serenity and quiet peacefulness. Avoid reds that are too aggressive and threatening.

Learn the art of communication through other gestures. Every color, shape, and form has a psychological meaning that speaks to everyone and every creature on an unconscious level. Learn the meanings of subliminal communication, and you can smile without even moving a lip.

When you smile, others will smile back. The more people smile back at you, the more you will want to smile. Before long, you'll realize you are no longer faking that smile.
Sometimes you need to start the ball rolling to change the mood from sad to happy. A simple smile can change a lot!

Think of something happy. Focus on it until whatever is bothering you is in the background. This will help maintain your smile until it becomes a genuine expression.

Clean yourself up, brush your hair, put on something good without holes or stains. A positive self image can be jumpstarted with a fresh look. A smile is sure to follow.

Try not to focus on the problem that's making it hard for you to smile.

Does Handwriting say secRET abT u ! !

``If letters slant to the left: Indicates introspection and a lot of emotional control.
``If letter slant to the right: Reveals a person who's outgoing, friendly, impulsive, and emotionally open.
``If letters are straight up and down: The sign of someone who's ruled by the head, not the heart.
``Letters that slant in more than one direction: Indicates versatility and adaptability.
``An erratic slant: Usually means a lack of flexibility.
``Heavy pressure writing (like you can feel the rib made on the back of the paper): The writer is agitated.
``Moderate pressure (the writing is dark, but you can't feel the rib on the other side of the paper): Shows ability to deal with stress.
``Light pressure: Indicates someone who seems to take life in stride.
``Tiny letters: Indicate the writer is has somewhat low self esteem but is intelligent.
``Small letters: The hallmark of quiet, introspective types - they're generally detail-oriented and have good concentration.
``Large letters: Sign of a confident, easygoing individual.
``Huge letters: Indicate someone who's theatrical, usually loud, and needs to be the center of attention at all times.
``Wide letters (their width and height are about the same): The mark of someone who's open and friendly.
``Narrow letters: Show someone who's somewhat shy and inhibited but very self-disciplined.
``Letters that don't touch: Indicate an impulsive, artistic, sometimes impractical free thinker.
``Some letters connecting: Means the writer's personality blends logic and intuition.
``All letters making contact: The sign of someone who's highly cautious.
``A curved first mark: Shows a person who's traditional and plays by the rules.
``A straight beginning stroke: Reveals someone who's rigid and doesn't like being told what to do.
``A final stroke straight across: The writer is cautious.
``An end mark that curves up: Reveals generosity.
``Perfect penmanship: The hallmark of a communicative person.
``An indecipherable scrawl: Indicates a person who's secretive

tiruvananthapuram dickshionary

Thiruvanthoram dishanary - thalley ... idivettu ... Note :: These words are used only in remote areas so do use it carefully
A Adi : Sporty _Expression
Adii Sekkkae : Expressive Comment for a Beautiful Gal
Aiyyam : Not Good
Akkan : Elder Sister
Alambu Payalu : Mischievous Guy
Alavalaathi : Useless
Alimpu, Alumpu : Mess Up
Aliyan : Buddy
Alli : Pidichu
Ammachiyaane : Mother Promise
Annaakki Thannu : Cheated
Annack Vare : Deep in Throat
Annan Konni : Real Useless
Appi : Small Baby
Arumbaatham : Finish, Samadhaanam
Azhukka : Bad
B
Baiju : Old Man
Balraaram : Balaramapuram (Place Name)
Bonji Vellam : Lime Juice
Borotta : Porotta
Braal : Cat Fish
C
Chaala : Maththi (Fish Name)
Charakakukalu : Beautiful Gals
Cheelu : Silly
Chella : Dear, A Nice Boy or a Girl
Chemala/Chevala : Red
Cherayuka : Staring
Cheythu Kidathukka : Revenge Completed
Chorri : Irritating
Chwaaru : Rice
Chwara : Blood
D
Daavu : Pretending
Dappi : Small Pot
De Pode Pode : Go Away
E
Entheru : What
Entoodi : With Me, To Me
F
Faagyam : Luck
Faaratham : India
Faarya : Wife
G
Ganja Payalu : Sleepy Guy
Gavanam : Be Concerned
H
I
Idichu Pirithu : Strong Punch
Illoolam : In Small Quantity
Inippu : Sweet
Ithippooram : Little
J
Jaada : Self-Importance
K
Kaa Parakki : Lazy Guy
Kadassi, Kadaseelu : Last, The End
Kailanchi : Knife
Kalippu : Riot
Kanji : Weird
Kannamthiruvukalu : Mischief
Karuvaadu : Dried Fish
Kinnam : Fantastic, Small Plate
Konjayadi : Making Fun
Koora : Waste
Koothara : Bad
Koothara Payalu : Ugly Boy
Kundaankadavu : Kundamon Kadavu (Place Name)
Kundani : Mischievous
Kuzhithurumbu : Cunny
L
Levan : He
Londe Lavide : Its Over There
M
Maakri : Frog
Machaa : Dear Friend
Madakku : Meals Parcel
Manja pranthu : Mad
Masha : Prostitute
Mini Mol : Old Lady
Moda : Self-Importance
Moonchi : Face, Fooled
Mudukku : Narrow Road (Path), Lane
Muttan : Gigantic
N
Niroovichu : Thought
Njerippu : Awesome
Noorey : Straight
O
Odakku : To Quarrel, Block
Orakkam : Sleep
Oyfe : Wife
Oyyirae : On Top
P
Paazhu : Useless, Waste
Pallu Vili : Scolding Using Ugly Words
Panna : Bad
Payalukal : Boys
Payya Thanna : Never : Slowly
Pazham : Fool, Banana
Pele : Police
Pesha : Lungi
Peyyaa : Whether Gone?
Peyyoodaam : Lets Go
Polappu : Amazing
Pukilukalu : Problems
Pushpan : Gay
Puttu : Lies
QRS
Swalpam : Little
T
Thalleay : Expressing Surprise, My God
Thallu : To Give, To boast
Thammassikkoola : Won't Allow
Thoottal : Diarrhea
Thorappa : Broom
Thirontharam : Thiruvananthapuram (Place Name)
Thwana : Lots Of
Thyaeri : Uphill
U
Ullasangalu : Happiness
Umba : Cow
V
Valichuu : Cheated
Valipeeru : Cheating
Varuthan : Outsider
Vedi : Prostitute
Vellangalu : Water
Vesarppu : Sweat
Vetti Veethi : Slaughter to Death
Vyali : Veli
W
Woa ..Woa : Ok, Done
X Y
Yaaku : Puke (Mostly related to pregnancy time)
Yelavu : Weird
Yemandan : Big
Yetthu Vaali Payalu : Parasite in Nature, a person doesn't have much importance
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